4 Things We Should Not Talk Immediately After Sex

In the last article, we talk about things we can not do immediately after sex. that’s for health. today we will talk about something tips to improve the relationship with partners.

Maybe you will think it’s too quiet after sex. silence may cause embarrassed. someone may try to find some topics to talk with partners. but which topics we should pay attention to.

Having Sex
  1. Ex-girlfriend or Ex-boyfriend

We told you many times before. if we have new partners, no matter what time. we’d try to not talk about ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend. it’s a really bad topic after sex. if you talk about ex-partner body or sex skills in front of a new partner. I think the new partner will be very very angry, it’s harmful to the relationship.

Having Sex
  1. Don’t comment her body

Sex-based on love. she loves you, so give everything to you. so please don’t pay too much attention to her body. learn to admire her, encourage her. only this can improve the relationship with here. or she will think it’s a one night stand.

Having Sex
  1. Don’t talk about his sex skills

For girls, we should take more consideration for boys. not all man has nice sex skills as a sex coach. remember, communication is very important. you can tell him what sex position you prefer during sex. try to make satisfying sex. but please don’t talk about his sex skills immediately after sex. it will make the man feel upset.

Having Sex
  1. Don’t talk sex movies

Please don’t blaspheme your sexual life with your partner. it’s really not the right time to talk about sex movies. just imagine it, you already have a perfect partner sleep beside you. your mind still has other nake men or women from movies. do you think you are loyal to your partner? also, it’s easy to make your partner misunderstand you. he may think you want him to perform like a pornstar.

Having Sex

So what topics you should choose after sex? In the next article, we will give you more suggestions.

4 Things We Should Not Do after Sex

We will feel very tired after satisfying sex life. you may want to have a rest or relax. we may make something wrong at this time. what things we should not do after sex?

Have a sex
  1. We can not take a bath immediately after sex.

We may sweat a lot after sex. in order to keep our body and external genital organ clean. most of the people may take a bath immediately after sex.
We should stop this. you may know we can not take a bath immediately after you take exercise. a long time sex life the same as taking exercise. may easily cause palpitation and asthma. if you take a cold shower after sex, the situation may become worse. cold water will make blood suddenly flow back to the heart and Increase heart burden. if you take a hot bath, the flood will quickly rush to skin. your heart will lack blood, it may cause disease. so we highly recommend you have a rest after sex, then go to take a shower.

Don’t take a bath after sex
  1. We should not go to sleep immediately after sex

I think most people will have a rest soon after sex. because they feel very very tired. actually, we should not do this. from sexual arousal to orgasm usually lasts 5—20 minutes, sometimes maybe last longer than this. so during this time, no matter you fall into sleep or not. your brain will feel very excited. so you maybe feel more tired next morning if you go to sleep immediately. so we suggest you have a short talk with partners, it’s not only good for your health but also can help you improve your relationship with your partner. because most girls hate the man to go to sleep immediately after sex.

Don’t go to sleep immediately after sex
  1. We should not eat cold food or have a cold drink immediately after sex

Our body will lose a lot of water because of the sweating. we may feel very thirsty after sex. shall we’d like a cup of cold drink? no no! we talk before, our brain will keep excited in a few minutes after sex. our tummy will feel uncomfortable if we have a cold drink suddenly. so we suggest you drink warm water after sex.

Don’t eat cold food immediately after sex
  1. We’d better not doing sex in the air-conditioned room.

Maybe you do not agree with my idea. I cannot live without air-conditioning in the summer. you ask me don’t make love in the air-conditioned room? it’s really crazy. but at least we should prepare a summer quilt and stay in quilt after sex. as we said before, doing sex will sweat a lot. if we suddenly put ourselves in a cold environment. we may easily get cold.

Keep warm after sex

Here we just talk about health, what should not do after sex. actually, in order to improve relationships with a partner. there are so many notices we should care about after sex. we will talk about relationship next time.

5 Sex Dreams to Analyze Your Secret in Heart

We have a lot of sex dreams in life. some are strangers, some are familiars. what’s the meaning of those sex dreams? today we will analyze 5 kinds of sex dreams.

Sex Dream
  1. First Love

80% of people will meet their first love in a sex dream. so don’t worry when she comes into your dream. psychologist explains that you don’t really miss her. you just have a boring life, you want an exciting life as before. if you feel bored or lonely about life at present. subconsciousness will make you dream your first love. it just reminds you to find a new way to make life more passionate.

First Love
  1. Strangers

If you have sex with strangers in a dream. someone maybe feels excited, but most people will feel strange. psychologist thinks if you have a hard life now, you expect to gain confidence. it’s possible for you to have sex with strangers in a dream.

Strangers
  1. Friends

You will feel nervous if you find you have sex with one of the friends in your dream. I think you need to spend a little time to think about what personal characteristics of your friend that can attract you? maybe you don’t have sexual desire on him, but he has special characteristics that you don’t have. you just admire him.

Friends
  1. The one you hate

I think most people will feel uncomfortable if have sex with someone you hate in a dream. this just reminds you that you want to communicate with him even though hate him very much. it also has another possible, you love him, so you hate him also.

The one you hate
  1. Famous person

It has two possibilities that you have sex with a famous person in a dream. firstly, they are really sexy. every day thinks about having sex with him. then do it in a dream. secondly, the same reason as you have sex with friends in a dream.

Famous person

Do you have extra sex dreams that different as what I write? welcome to leave us comments about it.

Sex Dream

It’s Really Not Good to Have Sex On First Date

According to the research, 83% of ladies refuse to have sex on the first date. but 67% of man has no objection. I think most of the girls will get a warning from her parents or ladybros that don’t have sex on the first date. today we won’t talk about right or wrong about having sex on the first date. we will talk about some benefits to it.

First Date
  1. Won’t affect you to leave a good impression on him

I think most of the girls have two reasons to refuse to have sex on the first date. she doesn’t prepare ok or her parents or ladybros told her don’t do that. if you can not find your own groove at present to have sex, you can choose to wait. but please don’t worry about so easy sex to lose respect or interest from him. if you want to have sex, just do it. I think he will contact you again after the first sex if he is interested in you.

First Dating
  1. It’s the best reason you have next dating

Who told you men hate to having sex at on the first date? you should know men has a positive attitude about sex. if you have nice sex, I think they can not wait to meet you again next time. in other word, a nice sexual experience ensures a second dating.

First-time Sex
  1. Do yourself if you like it.

If we don’t have sex at the beginning. we will think” shall we wait next time? but it’s already our fifth dating”. you will find your relationship with him is strange and losing some opportunities. as we know, if we are afraid of asking to have sex, you will feel stressed. dating relationship won’t last long.

Love

But before having sex, there are some questions and answers to help you to decide.

“You must ask him why he like you”
If he answered: you are beautiful (he likes your appearance)
If he answered: you are powerful (he appreciates your social value)
If he answered: we can talk a lot together, stay with you very happy (he appreciates your partner value)

Ask Questions

There is no right or wrong about having sex on the first date. but as we said before, safety still comes first. about first-time sex, welcome to check my post yesterday: http://bit.ly/2Hm65mg

5 Notice About First-Time Sex You Should Know

Everything has its first time. keep a long time lover’s relationship with your partner. first-time sex arrives in times. do you feel excited? feel nervous? being afraid of sex? I think we should do preparation for our first-time sex. there is 5 advice for you.

First Time Sex
  1. Prepare condoms in advance.

Condoms will make us feel relaxed during sex. we don’t worry about STIs and pregnancy during sex if he wears a condom. so it’s very important to talk with a partner how to protect yourself.

Condom
  1. Do more foreplay

We don’t require orgasm at first-time sex. but foreplay is very important for sex quality. trying to kiss, massage, suck before get inside. foreplay can not only help us feel relaxed but also girls won’t feel pain during sex. so boys please don’t be hurry to have sex, do more foreplay.

Foreplay
  1. Choose easy sex position

We maybe do a lot of preparations. such watch films to learn sex tips and sex positions. read blogs to learn kinds of foreplays. or ask someone to have a good experience. but don’t try complex sex positions. because it’s the first time, a partner can not cooperate with you to do the complex position. we firstly ensure make love successfully. simply missionary position will be ok.

Missionary Position
  1. Take a deep breath

We talk about a deep breath can help man last longer before. so do the same at first-time sex also. 30s ejaculation is very normal for a man at first-time sex. so boys don’t worry about it. girls better encourage him to do more times. most of people try more than 5 times that night.

Deeply Breathe
  1. Don’t forget the romance

Romance is good for a relationship at any time. having sex also needs romance. sometimes may girls want to turn off light, but boys want to turn on light. because most of the girls are shy of having sex under the strong light. so need a soft orange light.

Romance

Even though here have some tips to help you about first-time sex. but please don’t expect too much satisfied during first-time sex. not matter how many times you have done it, you can hardly get 100% satisfied. feel free to enjoy your first time.

How to Find Woman’s Clitoris? — Write for All Man

Boyfriend always can not find your clitoris. even though his hand already on your clitoris, he still easy get lost. just in case no body had told your boyfriend yet, i would like to share some knowledge about it.

Clitoris
  1. Where is clitoris?

Find clitoris at twelve o’clock direction of vaginae. you will find it has different color as labia. it’s a tiny little spot . that’s clitoris. but it’s just a part of clitoris. Actually it has 7 to 13 centimeters in your body. when you touch it or use stimulator. clitoris will become bigger and harder than before. 75% women said stimulating the clitoris is very important for orgasm.

Clitoris
  1. How to stimulate clitoris?

Tell your boyfriend don’t touch too hard. always has two kinds fingering. 2 fingers move in a circle slowly, insure your fingers directly touch clitoris. if you don’t like touch clitoris directly, you can ask him touch the skin around the clitoris. touch clitoris from top to bottom is another way. this fingering won’t touch other skins, very easy to get orgasm.


Where is the clit
  1. Shall we use Clitoris Stimulator?

Yes, of course. he will feel very tired if keep using finger to touch clitoris. a remote control clitoris stimulator is totally necessary for him. how to choose a good clitoris stimulator? Firstly, 10 frequency powerful vibration. secondly, USB charging. thirdly, Life waterproof. fourthly, Soft silicone tongue, stimulate the nipple and clitoris, and quickly reach the climax.fifthly, Mute design, the noise is less than 50db. Enjoy the time that belongs to a man peacefully.

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5 Positive Relationship Goals Should Couples Experience

Whether we are younger lovers or been married for several years. we all need have a plan to protect or enhance your love with partners. this plan is relationship goal. relationship goals have positive one and passive one. today we will talk about 5 relationship goals that can help you do self-improvement.

Relationship Goals
  1. Don’t worry you don’t have sex tonight

Someone think couples need have sex everyday to prove they have deep love. actually not, we have so many other things to do when we stay together. such as talking our work, our family, our friends, any topics will be OK for couples. in this world, long distance relationship always have sex 1 time per month or 1 time per year. they also love each other very much. so please don’t worry about it.

Couples Goals
  1. Always think for two

Even though someone already have partner. but they do everything like they still alone. only buy a cup of coffee when they are dating, or never ask if partner like milk or sugar, because he likes coffee with sugar. wife is looking after kids whole day, while husband go to bar have a drink. all this are bad for relationship, we should always think for two. consider more for partners.

Relationship Goals
  1. kids or no kids

Especially in China. when you have been married for 1 year. if you still don’t have kids, whole family will give you a big press to get pregnancy. husband will keep silent at this time although his wife don’t want to have baby at present. it’s not good for a husband to improve good relationship with his wife. if we want a kid, we’d better talk with wife and make a plan for it.

Couples Goals
  1. Don’t worry about dating place

Some lovers just in love for few days. everyday they will spend much time to find a nice place for dating. they want to give partner a happy dating. it’s absolutely right. but if we already stay together more than 1 year. we will find it’s hard to find a nice place for dating. what should we do now? don’t worry about it. no matter where we date, it’s happy dating if you have same topics with partner.

Relationship Goals
  1. Be honest about your money

We always try our best to buy nice gift for our partner. no matter how expensive is it. if it’s special gift for birthday or valentine’s day, i think it’s OK. be honest to your partner, especially money. give a true feeling to your partner and let her know what kind life you can give in future. she won’t only care about money if she really love you.

Couples Goals

10 Men Kindly Share Their Orgasm Feeling

I guess 80% women are curious about man’s Orgasm Feeling. does he have same feeling as us? they will shout out”come on”? it’s so interesting. we are very glad that 10 men very happy to share their feelings with us.

Sex Life
  1. it’s very warm especially in winter. like you find a campfire in a snow. i want quickly go to there and have a warm rest. mm, it’s very very comfortable. —Alex, 25
  2. if you have to pee during sex. it’s not comfortable, you feel more excited and get orgasm. but you can not pee, you can imagine that feeling……… —Peter, 20
Man’s Orgasm
  1. everything out of control. like you drive very fast on the highway, when you want slow down. but the break system is broken……. amazing, i will shout ” A A A”. —Luis, 26
  2. i am very very satisfied. i feel i am the most happy man in this world. i hold my wife and told her i love her. —David, 28
Man’s Orgasm
  1. i am going to die, i even don’t know if i am alive or not at that moment. then i need 1 or 2 minutes to recover. —Tom, 24
  2. Like Peeing……… —Jim, 23
Man’s Orgasm
  1. a strange feeling, but very cool. at that moment, you don’t feel any pressure. like a dream that you no need to work hard to feed your kids and family, you are free now. —Ryan, 30
  2. i feel a little nervous. my dick has a spasm. —Paul, 21
Man’s Orgasm
  1. like you drink a cup of tea at night, you never can fall in sleep any more. feel very excited. —Tim, 28
  2. my brain is empty at that moment, i am sure i don’t know what’s feeling about Orgasm. so i have no description about it. —Jorge, 22

All names are pseudonym. answers have been lightly edited by us.

Shall We Need Foreplay before Sex?

Answer of course Yes. a suitable foreplay helps us improve our sex life quality. especially for women, they will easy get orgasm if we have more foreplay.

Foreplay

Foreplay can quickly help women vagina to get wet. then we can easily get inside and won’t feel uncomfortable or painful. women feel more excited to make vagina getting wetter. both of us soon will get orgasm.

Right or Wrong

There are no right or wrong about foreplay. we can do whatever your partners like. but remember to confirm your partner love it, or will make situation worse. maybe we watch a film and want to have a sex. a love story makes us get excited. we kiss, we touch, we fondle and so on.

What’s foreplay we usually prefer before sex? here is research among 100 people.

  1. Nibbling earlobes
  2. Sucking and biting someone’s neck
  3. Licking and sucking nipples
  4. French kissing
  5. Caressing and squeezing breasts
  6. Stroking a man’s penis
  7. Stroking a woman’s clitoris
  8. Licking and kissing an anus
  9. Lightly caressing someone all over their body
  10. Fingering a vagina
  11. Fingering an anus
  12. Spanking someone’s ass
  13. Playing with testicles
  14. Telling him he’s good at guitar
  15. Telling her you like her poetry

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  1. Anal Plug
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5 Safety Ways to Help Your Partner Last Longer?

It’s not a satisfying sex life when you shout out”come on”, but your partner quickly ejaculate. as the research, 40% woman never reach orgasm during whole life. what’s wrong with it? Research shown that 45% men ejaculate shortly in 1 or 2 minutes. actually 7 or 13 minutes is a suitable time for women to get orgasm.

Last Longer

So how to help your partner to last long?

  1. Relax yourself. never be too excited or nervous. so many men feel too excited that can not control their fast ejaculation. when you feel excited or nervous, please stop for a minute and take a deep breath.
Relax
  1. Spend more time on foreplay. actually foreplay is very important for sex life. if we take a suitable time on foreplay, we should warm up very good and make both of us feel satisfied.
Foreplay
  1. Do we need a training before sex life? of course yes. Training will help us learn more sex tips and sex positions. we will know partner prefer which sex position. best sex tips and positions will help partner quickly get orgasm even though you ejaculate in 5 or 7 minutes.
Sex Tips
  1. Sex toys also can help you too much. especially for females. if you always ejaculate in 5 or 7 minutes. help your partner get close to orgasm by sex toys. then you get inside.
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  1. Research shown that a condom will help men last 1 or 2 minutes longer. try to ask your partner use more condoms, it’s safe and health for you. also help him last longer.
Condom

All above just 5 tips about helping partner last longer. finally, a health body is the key point to have a satisfied sex life. so do more exercise everyday. insure kinds of sex positions not hard for you.